Please leave your honest opinion?

My husband is upset with me and says that am stupid, childish, and immature. The problem is he came home from work at 3:00am and woke me up out of my sleep to tell me that a woman on his job had been diagnosed with the swine flu. I said "oh really honey that's sad" Mind you have to get up and 6:00am to start my work day. Don't get me wrong I don't have a problem with getting up and talking with my husband about his work day. I laid back down to try and go back to sleep and I hear him beating on our daughter door with the same story she too has to go to school in few hours. I try to lay back down and comes in our bedroom and says. Do you know where the cordless phone is I need to call Antonio (our son) I said it's on the charger why what's wrong? And he says oh I just want to tell him about Anisha . That was the last straw...I said Honey is she in the hospital? He said no she's fine just a real bad cough chills and vomiting...So I said why is soo important that you break everybody sleep to tell us about your co-worker whom we have no idea who she is and another thing why are you so concerned? When I was in the hospital with a blood clot in my lung a life threathing situation you didn't show that much concern and when our son was In the ICU you didn't show that much concern and he was only 9 years old. Then I have been going to the doctor now for 2 and a half years for a blood disorder and you have not even met my doctor. ( I have to go to the doctor once a week)......Do you think I had a reason to be upset?