How to reestablish my cat relationship?

Believe me you deserve them Not sure they deserve you! When you got him did you do the towel rubbing and seperation thing and slowly introduce them? I did not do this with my first 2 and the female I had never got along with the male then she ped and I got another female kitten and did the towel rubbing thing and she gets along fabulously with this male Then a black long haired wondered up here at my house and again i did not do the towel rub and think I rushed the introduction and the other 2 don't get along with him (makes me crazy and sad and creating all kinds of problems :-P ) I would give it a try if you can to seperate the two and each day rub a towel all over each and then let that towel in the room with the opposite cat and also switch rooms with each cat for a period during the time you're home then after about a week or so hold the new cat tucked into your arms securly and let them see each other for a few minutes gradually going longer each time I'm not sure if it will work now but it is worth a try Good Luck I know your pain! =D